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Holiday Survival Guide For Singles

“So, are you seeing anyone yet?” “ “When will you have a boyfriend?” “Why don’t you have a man yet?” “Are you secretly gay?” Though I mainly show up to the function to stuff my face, I know that those are just a few of the questions I’m expected to be interrogated with at my […] Read more…

How To Heal From The Trauma From Past Relationships So That You Can Walk Fully Healed Into What God Has For You

I’ve experienced some traumatic events in my 16 year dating life. I’ve dealt with everything from a man cheating and getting a girl pregnant on me; to being the one that was pregnant and finding out that my man was cheating on me MINUTES before having an abortion; to verbal abuse to the point that […] Read more…

You Are More Than A (Future) Wife

Hey loves! No long post here. I just wanted to stop by and remind that you are more than a (future) wife. When you give your life to God, the goal is to live for Him and be a vessel to share His message to the world. God doesn’t keep you on earth to quench […] Read more…

Feeling Lonely During Cuffing Season?

Wait! I wrote this entire post about feeling lonely during cuffing season and THEN I realized that I don’t know what defines cuffing season. Is it the colder weather, the holidays or both? I’m not sure but if any of you know, let a sister know. What I do know is that a lot of […] Read more…

From One Single To Another

To my fellow singles, Can we have an honest moment? Not like a “you will be single until you are content with your life” moment, but like a for real honest moment? From one single to another moment? Okay, cool. I wrote this open letter to myself, my single self because sometimes the best thing […] Read more…